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Hot social media networks to check out today: Part 3 of 3

Ladies and gentlemen, the time has come to reveal my third and final pick in my hot social media networks to check out today series.

Without further ado, I present...

Klout
It's known as that thing that measures your online influence.

What's Klout all about?
To put it plainly, Klout is a tool that summarizes and scores your online influence on topics and on people. It gives you a number on a scale of 1 to 100 (with 100 being most influential).

How does it do that, you might ask?

When you create a Klout account, you connect it to your social media networks such as Twitter, Facebook, Linked In, You Tube, and blogging platforms, too. Then, Klout measures your audience reach, combined with the who's, hows and whats behind the interactions going on at your social media pages and profiles. This includes the information you create and share with others, plus the information others create and share with you. Klout crunches the data and generates your influence score.

How accurate is it?
As a Klout user, I've received inaccurate summaries. It pegged me as being influential about yoga, for example, but I haven't attended a yoga class in a year. My yoga-loving friends are much more influential about this topic than I so maybe their interactions with my social media accounts confuses Klout.

Perhaps the brains behind Klout are working out the kinks or maybe I just needed to give the tool more time to get to know the online me. But I'm happy to report that after participating in recent Twitter chats about Oscar-nominated films, my Klout score reveals I'm influential about movies -- and not yoga (that's more like it, Klout.)

Why should I try Klout?
Beyond bragging rights, your Klout influence can lead to perks, offered up by businesses that are wise to rewarding influential folks.

And you're curious to find out what Klout reveals about you, aren't you? Go on, give Klout a try.

Are you on Klout? If not, would give it a try? If so, do you think it's accurately sums up your influence on others?

If you're an early adopter and have been completely bored by my little trilogy, I'd love to know which social media network you think I should check out next. As always, I welcome all feedback.

Hot social media networks to check out today: Part 2 of 3


Today, I continue my little trilogy (all the cool kids are writing 'em these days, ya know). I'm revealing three hot social media networks to check out today. Read my summaries, give these free social networks a try and before you know it, you'll be one of the cool kids too.

2. Google Plus
To put it most plainly, Google+ is the search-engine giant's version of Facebook, enhanced with the power of search engine information.

OK, but really. What does Google Plus offer?
On Google Plus, you organize your contacts/friends into "circles" (friends, family and colleagues, for example) and when you post a photo, link or thought, you control which "circle" can see the stuff you post.

There's also a chat function and a neat audio/video conferencing function called "Hangouts" (imagine a group Skype session that's neatly integrated into your social networking account.)

The trouble with Google Plus today is, if you're like most Canadians, few of your friends are using it because they're already active on that other social media network. But that could change, right?

Why should I give Google Plus a try?
If your friends are active Google Plus users, you're missing out on their updates, photos, chats, video chats, etc. If they're not, you're not missing out on much yet but the possibilities are intriguing.

Because the world's most popular search engine is behind this social networking tool, it has the potential to deliver a highly customized -- and super cool -- experience.

If you're searching for a new nail polish to freshen up your look this season, for example, Google Plus could deliver the fabulous search engine results you're used to, plus maybe even your friends' reviews of their favourite new nail polish shades -- gathered from the social media information they share on Google Plus. You'd have more relevant information at your (well-manicured) fingertips than ever before.

And you'd be doing your part to stimulate a little healthy competition between businesses -- and that's usually manifests in good things for consumers. With Google Plus on the social networking turf, you can't help but wonder if the decision-makers at Facebook feel challenged to deliver a solid offering for its users.

If Facebook ever turns into a ghost town, you'll probably find your social media-loving friends on Google Plus. Why not get a head start now?

Part 3 is coming up next week
Join me next Monday here in The Life Blog when I share my third, final, and perhaps less common recommendation of a social network to check out today. And if you missed Part 1, you can catch up here: Hot social media networks to check out today: Part 1 of 3.

In the meantime, I'd love to know: Are you on Google Plus? Why or why not?

Hot social media networks to check out today: Part 1 of 3

Do you always feel like you're one step behind when it comes to the latest social media networks and trends?

If so, you're not what the marketing pros call an early adopter or trendsetter. And you know that there are advantages to not being the first in line to try the latest technology out there.

You smart little thing, you. You've given developers time to work out some bugs before you arrive on the scene and by the time you decide to really join the party, some of your friends are already there, ready to welcome you and make the whole experience a lot more fun and interesting.

Here's a quick and easy summary of the social media networks your friends, family and colleagues might be talking about.

1. Pinterest
One of the fastest growing social media networks of the past couple of years, Pinterest is a site that's meant for sharing gorgeous photos.

What the heck is Pinterest?
It's like a bunch of virtual bulletin boards filled with beautiful, inspirational photos. You 'pin'/add/share beautiful photos you find online and group them according to themes on virtual boards. You follow users and boards you like and the networking begins.

What's so great about Pinterest?
Inspiration. That's the greatest thing Pinterest offers.

Just imagine the possibilities of visualizing creative projects in one digital space that you can access when you're out shopping or when you're planning your next home renovation project. Or your child's birthday party. Cool crafts to make; impressive meals to cook; fabulous outfits to put together and amazing travel destinations to keep you focused on saving for your next getaway.

What else do I need to know?
Canadian Living is on Pinterest so check us out there.

Membership is free and by invite only so you need a Pinterest user (like me) to send you an invitation in order to join.

Copyright violation is an issue on Pinterest so be sure to share your own photos or pics from sites that encourage sharing of their photos. These sites tend to include a Pinterest button in their content-sharing tools. Include photographer credits and read Pinterest's Terms of Service, pin etiquette guidelines and copyright policies.

Pinterest is best viewed on devices that showcase big photos at their finest, like on tablets or computer monitors -- but maybe not so great for accessing on your mobile phone.

Are you on Pinterest? If so, what do you like about it? If not, why not?

See you next Monday for Part 2 of my roundup of social media networks to check out today.

5 things you need to know to take better photos today

You carefully track your kids around the playroom, armed with your point-and-shoot camera, waiting for that magic moment when they'll hold still for one second. Just. One. Second. Pleeeease? Hold it, and snap!

You got the shot, only to review it a few seconds later and find that's it's a whirl of blur. Artistic, maybe. But not exactly something you can send to Grandma and Grandpa. It happens to the best of us, doesn't it?

Whether you're an amateur or a professional, mastering a few photography basics can make more of your snapshots worthy of framing and displaying. The following pro tips from Toronto-based photographer, Jennifer Pearson, will help you to take better photos starting...now.

1. Motion
It may seem counter-intuitive, but holding your camera as still as possible, while tracking your moving subject, can keep your subject in focus. That's what I didn't do right in this shot:

Moving traffic on Toronto's Gardiner Expressway blurs while the sunset remains clear with a steady hand.

Moving traffic on Toronto's Gardiner Expressway blurs while the sunset remains clear with a steady hand. Photo by Jen Melo

Had I tracked the traffic with my camera as it zoomed by, I could've gotten a clearer shot of the cars, but that probably would've blurred the lovely sunset. And so, I learned, every shot is a photography lesson.

According to Pearson, manually adjusting camera settings in favour of a quick shutter speed (choose a higher number) can help you to capture your action shots at their best. And that's probably what I should've done to get a clearer shot of the zooming cars. Noted for next time.

But video just might be the best way to capture the action, so consider shooting video clips too. Had I spent more time with my new Panasonic Lumix GF3X's instruction manual, I'd have known that it has an auto-focus function that can lock its focus on a subject while in video mode, and gradually shift its focus to another moving subject at my fingertip's command.

2. Lighting

Light and shadows add dimension to my treasured hibiscus bloom, non? Photo by Jen Melo

Light and shadows add dimension to my treasured hibiscus bloom, non? Photo by Jen Melo

Whether you're shooting with a flash indoors or outside in natural lighting, know where your light is and pay attention to those shadows.

When photographing outdoors seek "open shade," a photographer's trick for ensuring a flattering photo. Position your subject under an awning for example, with the sun behind you, and over your shoulder. This magical lighting can help make your subject's eyes look bright and vivid while eliminating squinting and distracting shadows.

When shooting indoors and flash is too harsh, consider manually adjusting your camera's exposure setting or directing the flash upwards, "bouncing" it off a low, light-coloured ceiling.

3. Framing
"Pay attention to your background," says Pearson. "It can make or break your shot."

Look for simple and/or interesting backgrounds like a brick wall, for example, to make your subject stand out. For picture-perfect results, look for natural or architectural borders and frames such as archways and door frames.

You can find plenty of framing options at playgrounds too, but if you want to avoid having a bunch of strangers' kids in your shot, follow Pearson's advice: "Get there early."

4. Composition
Experiment with the rule of thirds. Break up your frame into thirds vertically and horizontally. As you look through the viewfinder or at your camera's LCD screen, align your subject with the lines or place a focal point such as a person's eyes where the lines intersect. "It can make for a more interesting shot," Pearson explains.

5. Creativity
With digital photography enabling you to photograph and delete without incurring film and photo processing costs (remember those days?), dare to try various approaches and unleash your creativity. Alternate close-up shots with wide shots, people and objects, to help tell a story. Use photo filter options (if available on your camera) and see your photos in new and different ways.

More expert photography tips:

  • Play with angles. Shoot from above, below and on the same level as your subject.
  • Forget the fake smiles and try some candid shots. Avoid instructing, "smile!" before every shot. Some of Pearson's most "soulful" portraits come from natural facial expressions, free from coaching.
  • Use the grid feature on your camera's view, not only to work with the rule of thirds, but also to use the straight lines as guides. Say goodbye to crooked shots of horizons or tall buildings.
  • I've said it before but it's worth repeating. Read your camera's instruction manual and take time to get to know your camera's settings. There could be plenty of unexplored features just waiting to turn your photos into wonderful works of art. Or at least some answers on how to find that shutter speed setting that'll help you to get that perfect portrait of your active child.

Motion shots are my biggest challenges so some of my favourite subjects -- kids and pets -- are commonly the sources of my photo woes but I'm learning more with every shot I take.

And now, I'd love to hear your thoughts on your most common photography challenges so please post a comment below. Would you rather photograph a squirmy two-year old or a hyperactive dog? How about shooting both the dog and the kid together? I welcome -- and look forward to -- your photography tips.

Top 5 wedding trends for 2012

Don't you just love a good wedding? The beautiful bride, the handsome groom, the outpouring of love, heartfelt speeches and last but certainly not least -- the cake! A fabulous wedding can take months or even years of planning, patience and inspiration.

To help you with the inspiration bit, Canadianliving.com's Relationships editor, Tasia Rivero scoured a local wedding show in search of the latest and greatest wedding trends. Without further ado...Tasia, take it away! -- Jen Melo

Top 5 wedding trends for 2012
by Tasia Rivero

Last Friday, I attended The Wedding Co. Show at the Carlu Hotel in Toronto where 125 vendors met with happy couples looking for the best wedding wares. Organizer Catherine Lash hand-picked her favourite apparel and accessories designers, event organizers, photographers, pastry chefs and more to highlight the hottest wedding trends for 2012. Here are the top five trends you need to know if you're planning a wedding:

1. Fascinators reign supreme

Headpiece by David Dunkley, KCs Hats. KCsHats.com

Headpiece by David Dunkley, KCs Hats. KCsHats.com

The modern fascinator continues to be a hot wedding trend for Canadian brides. For 2012, expect to see brides in short veils ("bouquet-length"), birdcage netting covering part of the face, or feathers and/or floral headbands and hairpins.

2. Personalized bridal wear

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Blue sponge necklace - also available as hanging earrings -- imported from Italy by Rue Pigalle.

This year, brides-to-be are keen on breaking up an all-white look with a touch of colour. Think dresses accented with gorgeous silk sashes, gem-coloured shoes to peek out from under full skirts, and showstopping coloured jewelry.

3. The sweets table

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Decadent sweets table, Truffle Cake & Pastry. Truffletoronto.com

Wedding cake no longer stands alone. This year, expect to see an entire spread of toothsome treats: gourmet, colour-coordinated bowls of candy alongside baked goodies like cupcakes in regular and mini sizes, meringues, madeleines, macarons and cookies. Mmmmm.

4. Hand-crafted stationery

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Calligraphy by Rajiv Surendra, Letters in Ink. Lettersinink.com

Wedding stationery was a huge part of the show. This year, couples have plenty of options when it comes to their save-the-date notes, wedding invitations and thank-you cards. Many of these items are uber-personalized, featuring quirky block letters with custom graphics and colours, or sophisticated, hand-drawn calligraphy.

5. Communal dining tables

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Communal table setting, Gorgeous Events. Gorgeousevents.ca

Long, communal dining tables are perhaps an unexpected trend at the show. This year, couples are embracing intimate receptions. Get the look by setting up a long, straight table, adorned with low floral arrangements to allow for unobstructed chatter between your guests.

Which of these top five wedding trends is your favourite? Least favourite?

Do you use the world's worst password?

You're ready to begin another workday, you start up your computer and you're greeted with a password prompt. A few keystrokes later  -- Yes! You're in.

You launch a browser, enter another password to enable your Internet access and -- Yes! You're in again.

The dreaded password rejection notice
And then you visit Facebook. (Let's not pretend like that's not the first thing you do at the office.) Or Twitter. Or Stumble Upon?

You enter your username and password and then you're slammed with rejection. It's the dreaded "incorrect password" message. How rude!

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Perhaps it's not Facebook's fault
Maybe you changed your password recently. You try something else. Incorrect password. Drat! For a moment, you think it's Facebook's fault. They're locking you out. Gah, Facebook! Eventually, you accept that it's probably you, not them.

With a flicker of shame, you accept defeat and click the silent, smirking "Forgot your password?" link. (I'm sure it smirks.)

Changing your password
You enter your email, apologetically asking Facebook to help you to clear this little password mishap and let you in so you can catch up with what your friends are up to. Addicted. Who you?

After receiving an email from Facebook (Yay, Facebook!), it's time to change your password. Whatever you do, don't type the world's worst password!

Nope, it's not abc123. That's the 5th worst password.

Nope, it's not 123456. That's the 2nd worst password.

According to smart phone application developers SplashData, cited in the 25 worst passwords of 2011 article at Mashable, the worst password is simply: password

So many passwords, so little memory
As the senior web editor of Canadianliving.com and a journalist with more than 10 years of work-related online activities under my belt, I have a collection of about 100 active passwords that grant me access to various servers, software applications and administrative accounts. I'm happy to report that "password" is not one of them. Phew!

How about you? Is "password" one of your passwords?

Don't be a hacker's dream come true. Change those risky passwords now. And change them often.

Create the best password
To create a password that's hard to crack, use combinations of letters and numbers, and special characters, if allowed. Favour a long password of eight characters or more.

Don't use the same password everywhere and especially take care to use a unique password for banking. According to Microsoft's advice on how to create strong passwords, hackers may gain access to passwords on less secure sites and then use them on more secure places like banking sites.

And with all that password-changing, you might need to revisit Mashable for 5 tools for keeping track of your passwords.

Care to share? How do you keep track of all your passwords?

Would you take your coworker seriously if she wore this to work?

I have one simple question for you today, lovelies.

Would you take your coworker seriously if she was dressed like this at the office?

Senior web editor, Jen Melo, embracing the Halloween spirit at Canadian Living offices.

That's me! Senior web editor Jen Melo, embracing the Halloween spirit at Canadian Living offices today.

And what if she wore these?

Yes, these are WAY more comfortable than office-appropriate high heels.

Yes, these are WAY more comfortable than office-appropriate high heels.

Hoppy Halloween!

When should you take a sick day? 3 signs you should stay home

I've recently been fighting fatigue, a nasty cough, congestion and even a fever -- yes, it's hard to see the bright sides of fighting the flu.

The office plague strikes again
It seems that about half of my colleagues have also be fending off what I've dubbed "the office plague." There's sickness in the office air and it's looking for warm bodies to take up residence in. Yikes!

Going to work when you're sick puts your coworkers at risk when you're contagious. And I don't care how self-disciplined or how strong your work ethic, you're not going to do your best work when you're under the weather. Sometimes you need to take sick leave and take care of yourself so you can get better and then get back to business.

The mobile office minimizes time off due to sickness
I'm fortunate to work at a job that enables me to work remotely when needed. I can get just about everything accomplished from home, without having to infect and offend my colleagues while flu-fighting. Even so, it's important to know your limits and listen to your body's cues that indicate it's time to rest and recuperate.

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My recent sickness prompted me to ask: When should you take a sick day and when should you tough it out and go to work?

Here's what I think:
1. If you suspect you're contagious, please stay home. Please.
2. If you're feeling so uncomfortable that you'll be distracted and productivity tanks, you're sick. Stay home.
3. If your sick self would be a nuisance to coworkers (excessive coughing, nose-blowing, whining), stay home.

Why do we work when we're sick?
But if your work policy doesn't allow for a generous allowance of paid sick days and you can't work remotely, you've probably found yourself going in to work when you should be in bed instead. If being sick and not going to work means taking a financial hit, you've probably worked when sick. And love 'em or hate 'em, we all know those headstrong folks whose ambition and drive has them working when they really shouldn't be.

On the other hand, taking a sick day when you're just fighting off a sniffle or some mild discomfort isn't a good sign either. When you're motivated and engaged in your work, you'd rather go to work and be productive than stay home, right?

Your attendance record reveals clues about job satisfaction
Take a moment to think about your workplace attendance record. Have you taken many sick days but you haven't suffered a significant health challenge? If so, it's probably time to consider a career change.

Here's a parting thought: If ______________, you should take a sick day.

Use the comments section below to fill in the blank.

Canadian commute times, and 4 ways to beat road rage

Forty-five minutes to an hour. That's how long it typically takes me to drive to work each morning. And that, my friends, is 19 to 34 minutes longer than the average Canadian's commute time of 26 minutes.

Canadians' average commute times
It's no surprise that Canadian cities (by census metropolitan area) with a population of more than 1 million reported the highest average commute times.

Here are the country's top three cities with the longest commute:

A little Toronto traffic in action.

A little Toronto traffic in action.

33 minutes - Toronto
31 minutes - Montreal
30 minutes - Vancouver

I live in Toronto but on behalf of my city, I'd like to offer up the title of longest commute time to another great Canadian city. Montreal? ...Vancouver? ...Any takers?

Road rage just might begin with a full bladder
When traffic moves nicely, I enjoy my commute. It's a precious piece of "down-time" when I can listen to the radio and ease into and out of work mode. But I've come to learn that the frustrating combination of nasty traffic, inconsiderate drivers and a full bladder can bring me to the brink of tears.

I've learned a thing or two three four about dealing with a frustrating commute.

1. Relax! Yes, you're frustrated but unless you can wave a magic wand and command cars to float up into the sky and out of your way, accept that there's nothing you can really do about the situation. Breathe. Accept that things are out of your hands and you'll be better equipped to relax and then decide whether to stay the course or take another route.

2. Create a diversion. Distraction is a treasure when you're stuck in a traffic jam. Play Bumper Stumpers if the licence plates around you are accommodating, admire your fellow road warriors, day dream (that image of cars floating up into the sky at my wand's command didn't  just hatch itself, you know ;) )

3. Turn up the radio -- but not so loud that you can't hear sirens from emergency vehicles. I find that listening to music that reminds me of a vacation works best for soothing the savage beast (a.k.a road rage). That's why my car is always stocked with reggae and Latin music. My car tunes have healing powers.

4. Pee before you flee. Yep, that's right. Expect the unexpected on the way to and from work. While you might expect that you'll be home with full access to your private bathroom in 20 minutes, a traffic jam could make your ride home very uncomfortable if you need to use the restroom.

Now it's your turn to share. What are your best tips for dealing with road rage? And how long does it take you to get to and from work?

Best career advice you ever got: A top-10 list

What are you naturally good at? What do you love to do? Merge the two and you have valuable clues about the job that's right for you.

I received this great career advice from a practical stranger one day, while working at part-time job I didn't exactly love. That job would eventually help me to pay my way through journalism school and land the job I currently occupy and thoroughly enjoy, as CanadianLiving.com's senior web editor.

What was I naturally good at? Spelling. (Don’t snicker, please.) What did I love to do? I enjoyed reading, watching or acting out stories. Knowing these two things about myself helped me to narrow my job options and pursue a career in a field that keeps me excited and challenged.

The wisdom of the crowd is a powerful thing so I asked Canadian Living's Twitter and Facebook group members to share the best career advice they ever received. My favourite responses make up the following top-10 list.

Join the conversation on our Twitter and Facebook groups

Join the conversations in our Twitter and Facebook groups

From @canadian_living Twitter followers:

1. Find a way to make money doing something you love. -- @newtothekitchen

2. Listen 10 times as much as you speak. And when you do speak, make it count. -- @Mailatale

3. Be patient. Success doesn't happen overnight. -- @Nicole_Leaver

4. Dress for the job you want; not the job that you have. -- @flourishcakes

5. You can't change everything so choose which mountains to go up against that are still in line with your values. -- @t_d_duker

From Canadian Living's Facebook friends:

6.  Never be afraid to learn. Our limitations are the ones we put on ourselves. Be honest and of good character. Always be ready to extend a hand in service. -- Nicki Bennett

7. Your career is yours. Don't sit back and wait for other people to do something for you. If you want something, go for it and keep trying. And networking is very important (you never know who can help you later.) -- Olivia Lamarre

8. Treat others with respect. Whether it's over email, on the phone or in a meeting. Whether it's a client, coworker or a boss... -- Olivia Lamarre

9. Volunteer in the field that you are going for. You make tons of contacts that way, and it's great on your resume! -- Jessi Merritt

10. Give your best to any job you take on. There are no small jobs; only small people. -- Patricia Pieper

Now it's your turn to share. What's the best career advice you ever received?



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