"The World Needs Your Child" Winners ... and Tips
Congratulations to Sue and Cheryl who have each won a copy of The World Needs Your Child - How to Raise Children Who Care and Contribute (me to we books, 2009) by Craig and Marc Kielburger and Shelley Page.
Here are 8 parenting pearls of wisdom from this great book that I would like to share with you:
1. Of course your children are gifted: Your challenge and joy is to help them discover their talents.
2. Give the presence of time: Don't rush. Let your child discover her own abilities at her own speed.
3. Make room to explore: Your talents are your talents. Give your kids the freedom to find their own way to shine.
4. Take an interest in their interests: If your child is fascinated with dinosaurs, take him to the library or the natural history museum. No matter the flavour of the month, help him explore.
5. No pain, no pain: Dragging a kid to practice only works for so long. Help him find his groove.
6. Encourage effort, not results: Marks and scores are important to a point. A the end of the day, the real goal is for your child to feel a sense of accomplishment.
7 . Model optimism: Tell your children that you have faith in them and believe they can succeed.
8. Show and share: Encourage kids to share their talents with friends, family and community.
If you have any other tips, please share them. Talk to you soon.
September 11th, 2009 at 12:39 pm
Here's another tip I'd like to add!
Allow them to make mistakes - don't criticize. To create healthy self-esteem, highlight the fact that they're not a FAILURE if they do make mistakes - the important thing is to have them focus on what they've learned as a result.
September 13th, 2009 at 12:46 am
Yes, be patient and allow them to bloom