Latchkey kids

The Latchkey Checklist

• Do you feel confident that you can supervise your child at a distance? Does he have a clear understanding of what is unacceptable behavior, and has he learned from experience that there will be fair but definite consequences if he displays any of it? Are you able to contact him by telephone to provide an additional element of supervision?

• Can you establish routines and activities that meet your child's needs? Does she need a list of suggested activities to keep herself occupied? Can she have a friend over?
•Do you have a safety plan that he could recite chapter and verse? If he is able to prepare his own snack, can he use the stove or cutting knives safely? Should he answer the telephone? If so, what should he say if someone asks to speak to his mother or father? Does he understand the basic elements of streetproofing?

• Does he know the numbers to call in an emergency? Have you practiced the family fire drill recently? What neighbors can he contact if a problem arises? Can he be in all areas of the home? Is he allowed to play in the front or backyard? Can he visit a friend or ride his bike? How accessible can you make yourself at work, and should he always call you when he arrives home?

• If necessary and affordable, would a pager or cell phone be advisable so that he can reach you at any time?

After you have considered all the important factors, you are left with one of those "Judgment calls" that inevitably make parents anxious, at least until experience tells them they were right. Although the image of the child hiding under the bed is not representative of the latchkey kid, there are always risks involved when we allow our children greater freedom and independence. The research at least helps parents decide if self-care is an option.

After you have considered all the important factors, you are left with one of those 'Judgment calls" that inevitably make parents anxious, at least until experience tells them they were right. Although the image of the child hiding under the bed is not representative of the latchkey kid, there are always risks involved when we allow our children greater freedom and independence. The research at least helps parents decide if self-care is an option.