Quiz: Are you a pushover parent?

Mostly 1s: Puzzled parent
Never mind being a pushover, your children may not recognize your parental influence at all. You tend to avoid conflict with your kids but they may see you as cold, distant, distracted and unavailable to attend to their needs. While children of dismissive parents can be street smart and independent, they're also more likely to be aggressive and/or violent and lack self-discipline. Don't underestimate the importance of actively nurturing your child's development. Get comfortable with playing a more active role in your kids' lives.

Mostly 2s : Pushover parent
You'd rather keep your kids happy than be the source of their frustration. Despite your best intentions to protect and empower your children, your tendency to shield them from conflict may hamper their ability to cope with letdowns. Children of pushover parents tend to have an inflated sense of entitlement and expect too much from others. They're also less likely to be good problem-solvers and blame others rather than assume responsibility. Focus on being consistent with rules and follow through with consequences. Rest assured that even if they don't show appreciation when you're administering discipline, your children look to you for structure, guidance and rules.

Mostly 3s: Parenting pro
As a result of the steady structure you provide for your kids to grow and learn in, they're more likely to be well adjusted, respectful and self-aware rather than self-centered. Continue to strike a nice balance between outlining consistent expectations and sharing warmth and encouragement. Then reap the rewards of a healthy, loving family life.

Mostly 4s: Play-by-the rules parent
You're definitely not a pushover but your rigid rules and overly strict parenting style could put a sizeable wedge in your parent/child relationship. Children of authoritarian parents may be withdrawn, depressed and lack self-respect. You may have a tendency to be a perfectionist but don't demand perfection from your kids. Give them room to make mistakes and allow them to learn from their errors.

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