Taking good care of a toddler

General health
Once your child has all his baby teeth -- sometime between his second and third year -- arrange a first visit to the dentist. If your own dentist isn't comfortable treating small children, ask your friends and neighbours to refer you to a suitable dentist, Some dentists only treat children under eighteen; their offices can be as much fun as an amusement park!

The first visit should serve simply to put your child at ease in the dentist's office, so don't wait for an emergency. If you yourself are uncomfortable about visiting the dentist, don't pass your anxieties on to your child. Don't say, "The dentist won't hurt you," or "It won't be too bad." Treat a trip to the dentist matter-of-factly, no different from a trip to the grocery store. The dentist could give your child a "ride" in the big chair, count his teeth, give him a new toothbrush and a sticker or toy treat. He may also demonstrate proper brushing and flossing techniques, but leave any problems to the next visit. Caring for your child's teeth means that you:

• Make sure he gets enough calcium and vitamin D in his diet.
• Continue daily brushing and fluoride supplements, if required.
• Floss his teeth regularly.
• Let your child see you brushing and flossing your teeth.
• Let him choose his own toothbrush.
• If your child isn't fond of toothpaste, offer a children's brand with fluoride, to be used no more than twice a day until he is six.
• Make sure your child rinses after brushing and doesn't swallow the toothpaste.

Visiting the doctor
Continue with regular visits to your family physician for vaccinations and booster shots, for review of any parental worries and guidance on what to expect. Also your doctor will document growth and weight and assess physical mental, and emotional development. Familiarize your child with what to expect during these visits by "playing doctor" first. Use a toy doctor's bag to show the child how the doctor will examine his eyes and ears; let him listen to your heartbeat. Also, since a toddler will easily become bored while waiting in a crowded doctor's office, bring toys or books as distractions.