Toddlers on the move

Beginning to walk
Most babies can move forward on their own two feet by their first birthday. Some are only at the stage where they pull themselves up to stand by grabbing on to furniture and then they cruise along slowly with support. Others will cruise along more smoothly and confidently, moving hand over hand. Others may cruise and periodically let go, toddling for a few unsupported steps. Some will walk without any support at all.

Keep in mind that early, impulsive walkers are sometimes more awkward and injury-prone than later walkers, who may walk more assuredly once they finally begin walking. The age of walking doesn't predict your baby's intellectual or athletic ability. At this stage, he's learning to talk, and he's beginning to acquire fine motor skills, so some of his energy and attention may be focused in these areas. Give him lots of chances to practise his techniques. He won't want to be confined to a stroller, high chair, or playpen for long.

From cruising to toddling
Once your baby is cruising confidently, you can encourage him to cross small gaps between one piece of furniture and the next. Gradually widen the gaps so that eventually he will be motivated to toddle a few steps across the open spaces. He may be ready to try walking, supported by your hands. You might encourage him to take steps on his own by positioning yourself a few steps away and saying, "Walk to daddy," so that he is motivated to toddle into your inviting, supporting arms.

At first, your toddler's walking style will be awkward and unsteady. He'll weave, wobble, and waddle, lurching forward and falling time and again. With practice, his walk will progress from a wide, stiff-legged gait to a more rhythmic, knee-bending gait, with the feet closer together. In time, he'll begin to stride forward briskly, with an authoritative marching gait. To help him gain control over his walking, take him out to a big, open space like a park where he can move around and fall freely. He will love it.

In the first stages of walking, your toddler won't use her hands for any purpose other than balance or support. Once she becomes more comfortable with the process of walking, she'll begin to use her hands to carry, play with, or pick up toys. As she learns to stoop over and pick up toys, her balance will improve.

She'll love toys that she can pull or push along while walking, like a wagon, pushcart, or toy animal on a leash. If you put toys on a shelf close to the floor, she might toddle over to get her own toys or put them back. Of course, sometimes she'll just sweep her hand across the shelf and knock the toys onto the floor.