The staff want that, too. That's why occupational therapist Andrea Carson teaches stroke survivors to relearn the day-to-day activities most of us take for granted, such as bathing and dressing, grocery shopping and driving a car. "I also talk to my patients about interacting better in society," she said, a place where their unique problems are not well understood.
One Friday morning, when I got off the elevator for my last visit, a bunch of patients were dancing to Sister Sledge's song "We Are Family." All the nurses were gathered around, clapping to the music. Louis had his lanyard of security tags thrown over his back and was dancing with anyone who would get up.
A pretty 20-something woman, who just days before was trying to hide her face behind a veil of thick hair, was wearing a hair band to pull it all back. She was moving to the beat, raising her arms when everyone else did. I wondered what Neil would think. He had already gone home.
Neil has made tremendous progress since his second stroke. After just two months of outpatient rehab at the University Centre, he has graduated from three days a week to two. He uses a walker to get around his downtown Toronto neighbourhood and regularly lunches with friends again.
Hospital etiquette for visitors
The holidays can be an especially difficult time for friends and loved ones who are in a hospital or hospice. Dana Naylor, manager of the cancer program at the Royal Victoria Hospital in Barrie, Ont., offers tips for making the season memorable.
• Every family has their own special traditions during the holiday season. Honouring them will make a loved one's stay in the hospital joyful and less stressful.
• Decorate the person's room using simple ornaments, but check with staff first for any restrictions.
• Arrange for carollers or bring in holiday music.
• Ask staff about activities that have been arranged (e.g., a visit from Santa, carolling or a special dinner) and attend them with your friend or family member.
• A visit from a family pet can brighten someone's day. Ask about hospital policies first.
• If a large number of family members are coming in for a visit, book another room in the hospital. This respects the privacy and needs of other patients.
• Respect visiting hours. They are in place to support the care of patients.
• If you are sick, stay home. Call instead of visiting.
– Donna Danyluk
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