10 steps to an easy move

7. Pack strategically
Whether or not you decide to pack all your own belongings (doing so will save you money), there are a few boxes you need to pack yourself. "Picture camping out for a week," says Jacki McGowan, who has moved 14 times in the last 13 years. "You need clothing to last a week, bedding and items for the kitchen, such as a pot and basic cooking utensils. And don't forget curtains." Clearly mark these boxes with coloured labels or anything that will keep them separate from the rest of the boxes. When labelling your boxes, try to add more detail than just the room; for example, Kitchen Pots and Pans or Bedroom Sheets and Pillows.

8. Manage the stress
Moving is stressful because of a feeling of loss of control, says Posen. In a family move, there’s often one person who is not a big part of the decision, such as a child. Recognize that change is a process, not an event, and the adjustment period can take months.  To help that process, maintain your and your family's routines, whether it's Friday night pizza, attending Rotary Club meetings or taking your dog for a hike on Saturdays. "Family rituals and traditions are portable," says Posen.

9. Keep your receipts
According to Canada Revenue Agency, you can deduct eligible moving expenses from income you earn at your new location. Your new home must be at least 40 kilometres closer to the new place of work. Eligible expenses include transportation and storage costs, travelling expenses and legal or notarial fees for the purchase of the new residence. For more information, visit www.cra-arc.gc.ca/menu-e.html; in Search the Site, key in "moving expenses."

10. Get out there
Your kids will make friends at school, but what about you? As exciting as a fresh start can be, there's also a dash of sadness in saying goodbye to friends and familiar surroundings – and a lot of anxiety. You're going to have to step out of your comfort zone when it comes to making friends, but don't go overboard, says Posen, who suggests starting in moderation by joining a club or volunteering and slowly becoming part of the new community. "The sooner you get over this bump, the better," says Jacki. "Be brave and embrace the new round of 'mom dating' to get yourself a new support network."

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