The dos and don'ts of pet communication
Don't: Yell at him when he's doing something bad.
Do: Use attraction sounds, such as a buzzing noise.
You can also say something like "pup, pup, pup" to grab your dog's attention if you catch him doing something he shouldn't, such as chewing on the couch, says O'Neill. Once he's looking at you, redirect his attention somewhere else (for example, give him a chew toy to play with). Says Landsberg: "Don't say, 'No, get off the couch,' but show him where he should go instead, such as a mat or dog bed." If he's chewing the legs of chairs or the sofa, offer him something else to gnaw on, such as a dog bone or chew toy.
Don't: Rely on just verbal cues or just action cues.
Do: Pair them together.
While most dogs respond to action cues (such as a hand motion for him to sit), verbal cues (such as "come" and "heel") are important for when he's not facing you, such as at the dog park or if he's in another part of the house. It's a good idea to use both: Use a hand motion for him to sit, and say "sit" at the same time.
Don't: Grab him by the collar.
Do: Gently guide him.
When directing your dog away from doing something you don't want him to do (jumping on the couch) to something you do want him to do (lying on his mat), grabbing him by his collar may scare him – he may react by growling or even biting. If you're in the early stages of training and at home, Landsberg recommends leaving the dog's leash on and gently pulling him to where he should be.
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