Children can be both excited and bored at a restaurant. Also, they can find it difficult to sit in one place for the length of time necessary to order, wait, eat and pay for the meal. This problem is one that improves with age, development and practice. With a good game plan, you can help your children learn how to behave appropriately in a restaurant so that you can all enjoy the experience.
What to do
1. Pick the right restaurant. Choose a restaurant based on its level of child-friendliness. Consider the availability of a children's menu that includes food your children will actually eat, the absence of a long wait for a table, and booster seats or high chairs. Private booths or eating nooks as opposed to one large open room can make dining out more fun. And a noisier, family-friendly atmosphere can help.
2. Teach restaurant manners at home. If you are casual about mealtime manners at home, don't expect your children to miraculously develop table manners because you happen to be sitting in a restaurant. Practice good manners at home for every meal, and your children will be prepared when you eat out.
3. Have longer sit-down meals at home. Typically, at home we call our children to the table when the food is ready and then excuse them as soon as they are finished eating. If you want to practice for restaurant visits, it's a good idea to have them come to the table a few minutes earlier. Then sit and chat for a bit after you are finished with the meal. Make if fun by telling stories or jokes or talking about upcoming plans. Not only will this be great practice for eating out, it's a wonderful ritual to introduce into your home.
4. Dine out at your regular mealtime. When possible, stick close to your routine. Plan to dine at a reasonable time, before your children become famished and tired. If you must go out later than your usual time, provide your children with a snack at the normal time and allow them to have a smaller meal at the restaurant, or to eat half the restaurant meal and bring the rest home.
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Excerpted from The No-Cry Discipline Solution: Gentle Ways to Encourage Good Behaviour Without Whining, Tantrums & Tears by Elizabeth Pantley. Copyright 2007 by Better Beginnings, Inc. Excerpted with permission from McGraw-Hill. All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced except with permission in writing from the publisher.
