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Is it time for your teen to see the doctor alone?

By Caroline Medwell

How to prepare your teen (and yourself) for their first solo trip to the doctor.
Advice for your teen
What teens can expect from a checkup
• A typical checkup includes checking blood pressure, heart rate, height and weight. The doctor will also examine the skin, eyes, ears, nose and mouth; listen to the heart and lungs; and feel glands, internal organs, joints and bones for lumps, sore spots or abnormalities.

• Boys can expect a genital exam, which will include having their testicles felt for swelling or lumps. Testicular cancer – though rare – can present at 15 years of age, and tends to affect younger males.

• Girls might require a pelvic exam, though it's no longer standard at age 16. Today doctors may wait until a girl is, or wants to be, sexually active, or feels there's a problem. If your daughter is scheduled for a pelvic exam, let her know what to expect, either by sharing your own experience (keep it positive) or by visiting a recommended website together for a complete description. (See "Want to Know More?" below.)

• Many doctors help young patients feel more comfortable by letting them keep as many clothes on as possible. Suggest that your teen wears easy-access clothing, such as a buttoned shirt or loose pants, to ease examinations. Wearing a camisole might give a girl more privacy.

• Encourage your child to ask questions. "Misinformation flourishes on the Internet and in the schoolyard," says Cooper. "Teens should know that it's important to hear from a pro rather than from friends on the street or in the locker room."

• Saying no is always an option. If your teen feels uncomfortable in any way – either with the doctor, or about any part of the examination – he can wait for another time, or another person.

Teens: This advice is for you
• Be honest and open. The doctor needs to know your history – and you're the historian. It's important to answer questions truthfully and share any concerns.

• Respect yourself. You have the right to get good health care, to ask questions and get answers, and to understand what's happening and why. You can say no.

• Make a list of things you want to know, and take it with you, so you remember what to ask.

• Be on time. If you need to cancel, give as much notice as possible (there might be a fee if you cancel without 24 hours notice).

• Be prepared to wait. Take a book or your iPod.

Want to know more?
Here are some helpful resources for teens:
Contact Kids Help Phone at 1-800- 668-6868 or visit and go to the kids' site.
Visit Kids Health – enter the teen site and search for "medical care."
Learn more at Family Health Online and click on Adolescent Health.

Read more
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Teenage milestones
Your teenager: An owner's manual
Understanding growth spurts

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