To learn more about what it's really like once the kids are gone, we turned to the world of social media to ask some of our readers about their experiences of dealing with their empty nests.
1. It feels like an ending
While living independently is a new beginning for the child, it can feel like an ending for many parents. "It seems to me that it is much like finishing a really good book," says Kathy from Calgary, Alta., who experienced a great deal of sadness in the weeks following her oldest daughter's marriage.
When a child leaves home, it isn't just the end of a chapter in your life, but also the beginning of another. Use this time to enjoy your time with your spouse, and get excited for what the future holds for your children. "You are a little disappointed that the book is finished, but really happy that you got to enjoy it and really looking forward to the sequel."
2. The house will be quieter than you think
One of the most common complaints from empty nesters is how hard it is to lay awake at night and hear every little creak your house makes. "The fridge is always full. There are no wet towels on the floor, no doors slamming, no phones ringing, no late-night chats, no random hugs," says Sandi, a mother of three from Montreal. "There is just too much quiet." Remember, though, initiating something like a monthly or even weekly family dinner is a great way to bring a little life back into your home and keep your family bond strong.
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