What is a polite but effective way to tell my guests that it's time for them to leave? Sometimes they stay until it isn't fun anymore -- especially for me. By the wee hours of the morning I just want to clean up and go to bed.
If turning on bright lights, coming down in your pyjamas and opening the front door does not work, try standing up during a lull in the conversation and letting everyone know you have enjoyed the evening and hope to do it again soon. If you continue to offer more beverages or put out more appetizers, guests may feel that you don't want them to leave. Have a designated guest whom you trust to help you emphasize the lateness of the hour. A simple, "Oh, my goodness, can you believe the time?" or "I guess we better let our hosts get to bed or we may never be invited back." When all else fails you must state the obvious and let guests know that the party is over.
-- Lew Bayer and Karen Mallett,
The Etiquette Ladies
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