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10 sweet date ideas

Book some alone time with your partner and reconnect with these intimate interludes

By Karyn J. Wilson

When romance first grips two people, a whirlwind of courtship begins with couples engaging in intimate dinners for two and cuddles in the back row of the cinema. Somehow, after the vows are spoken and the baby becomes a night crawler, romance often finds itself banished to the back seat of the family minivan. Before surrendering yourself to another evening of watching The Wiggles, take comfort in knowing that the romance you once shared can be recaptured when you spend time together one-on-one.

1. Yoga is sexy
If yoga brings impossible pretzel poses to mind, abandon your fears and embrace this sensual activity that physically brings couples closer together. Toronto yoga teacher David Robson owner of Catfish Yoga Shala teaches couple's yoga that shapes partners into various postures. It's natural to be nervous as a beginner, but Robson reassures that once a class is underway, tension leaves. "Resistance melts quickly away when they [couples] learn they don't have to chant." Yoga class is a great date because couples learn to reevaluate touch. "The dynamics of a relationship comes out. Couples need to work together," says Robson.

2. Climb every mountain
Introduce your partner to the sport of rock climbing. Many clubs offer reasonable packages for couples. Why does rock climbing inject passion into a relationship? As Meagan Alkemade of Toronto's Joe Rockhead's indoor rock climbing explains, it is a two-person operation. "You have to work together to climb successfully." Alkemade says you don't have to be in great shape to rock climb. "If you can walk up stairs, you can climb. Good climbers are sexy! They are great to watch as you have to perform smooth movements [to make it up the wall]."

3. Take a culinary trip to an exotic destination
If you and your partner haven't had the chance to purchase some fabulous exercise gear, hit the town and try a different type of cuisine. Syndicated advice columnist Ellie Tesher believes a night spent at a Moroccan restaurant will dust off the lust for lovers. "You tend to sit closer together at this type of restaurant. It is very sensual experience as you are eating with your hands. Very seductive."

4. A lust for learning
What could be sexier than education? Get a babysitter and meet your partner after work to attend a culinary class at a nearby community college, private cooking school or grocery store. Many institutions offer long- and short-term courses that emphasize the sensual side of food; meaning meals made for two. Working together on a romantic meal can spark future intimate dinners at home.

5. Discover your inner Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers
One of the most romantic images I've ever seen was of my Uncle Peter and Aunty Irene dancing at a family function. I never thought of my uncle and aunt as romantic figures, but all that changed when they embraced and effortlessly glided across an empty dance floor. How much they loved each other was expressed in some simple moves that locked them in a prolonged embrace. If a dance school is out of your budget, check your local paper for clubs that offer short-term dance instruction. It is all about being in sync with your partner.

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