For more insight on how to approach the holiday, we spoke with dating coach and relationship expert Christine Hart. She explains that by being open to something new, we can find romance in new places. "The thing that trips us up is that we're not always open to all the different ways that men are romantic," Hart says.
Though we might learn what conventional romance is early on, we often don't find our own personal definitions of romance. "If we keep expecting it in one way, we won't see it when it comes in other ways," she adds. Here, Hart offers five fresh ways to celebrate Valentine's Day with your significant other.
1. Skip the cheesy card
With all of the generic cards on offer, it can be hard to take Valentine's Day seriously, but never approach the holiday begrudgingly, Hart advises. Rather than buying the same heart-shaped card you bought last year, think outside the envelope. "Make this Valentine's Day the year you start making Valentine's traditions," she says. "It's the kind of thing that builds strength in the relationship."
Your Valentine's Day tradition could be as simple as making dinner together at home without any distractions (turn off your phones; put away your laptops). Focus less on exactly what it is you're doing and more on making it a special, annual event.
2. Trade gifts for an experience
Rather than getting hung up on what to buy, think instead about what you can do with your partner to celebrate the occasion. The activity can be as simple as getting outside and spending some time being active as a couple. Being outdoors is an excellent opportunity for people to be their natural selves, Hart explains.
"Getting yourself in an environment like that as a couple can really facilitate opening up," she says. Another activity that Hart strongly recommends for couples is rock climbing. "It's not only a great way to get active, but an excellent way to build each other up."
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