Answers from Expert: Marion Goertz, DMin, RMFT

If you have a question for one of our experts, please click here. An important investment opportunity is something called ethical funds -- the the monies that you contribute are invested in companies that employ sound labour practices and make the world a better place. Sounds like you're getting tired of seeing a low return on your investments of intimacy and affection and that you want to make your world a better place with someone who shares your ethical values! This may be a convoluted example but you need to listen to yourself to secure your present and future well-being. What do you want in a relationship? If you only have time and energy for a once-a-week snuggle then it seems like you're already there. If you want more, it's time to re-evaluate the track record of this relationship, challenge its potential to develop into something more meaningful for you and, if nothing changes, dump this underperformer while reasserting your self worth! Do some research around what prompted you to buy into this scenario in the first place. Did you get caught up in flashy packaging and a slick sales pitch? Were you feeling the pressure to invest in a relationship and leapt before you looked? Take some time to strengthen your sense of self before you venture into another investment that isn't right for you. Remember, health attracts health and you will want to commit to something only when you know that it will continue to pay dividends for many, many years to come. Marion