Managing hostess-phobia: Simple entertaining ideas for alternative holiday gatherings

Managing hostess-phobia: Simple entertaining ideas for alternative holiday gatherings

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Managing hostess-phobia: Simple entertaining ideas for alternative holiday gatherings

Don't let holiday hosting pressure drive you nuts this year. Here are 4 festive themes complete with menu ideas that will leave your guests happy and you stress-free.

Are you feeling the pressure to host a holiday meal this year? Has everyone in your family taken a turn except for you? If you're a turkey rookie, the thought of mastering poultry perfection for eighteen in-laws can be intimidating. Maybe it's the thought of competing with Aunt Liz's amazing latkes that's freaking you out. Or perhaps it's one too many picture-perfect Martha Stewart holiday specials that has left you petrified.

Don't allow yourself be immobilized by holiday hostess-phobia! You can pull off memorable gatherings with minimal effort and without being a maestro in the kitchen. There are plenty of opportunities to gather the gang at your home during the holiday season -- without the hassle of prepping a sit-down meal.

Holiday party idea: Toboggans n' Toddies
As important as gathering around a holiday table is, doing something active with your family and friends is sometimes preferable, especially when there are children or teens in the mix. If a nearby spot is available for tobogganing -- or ice-skating or skiing -- make your get-together special by anchoring it around a winter sport! Even a snowy backyard can make a great venue for a snowman-making contest; or how about road hockey in the driveway?

Once everyone has worked up an appetite, invite them in for cocoa and hot toddies. (Don't forget lots of rubber mats for all the boots and wet gear!) Casual activities call for casual foods: serve up trays of hearty sandwiches, chips and dips and store-bought brownies for dessert. (The easiest way to make a lot of sandwiches for a crowd is to fill baguettes with your favourite ingredients and then slice into individual portions. Do it the night before and you'll be golden!)

Holiday party idea: Sing for Your Sweeties
How much fun would it be to get your favourite people together for some old-fashioned carolling? This event could happen anytime leading up to Christmas or even in the days afterward. Follow up your neighbourhood serenade with refreshments and a smorgasbord of desserts that you've prepared in advance. Bake and freeze the goodies a little at a time so you aren’t rushed during those busy days in late December. Or keep it super simple and purchase some (or all) of them!

Whether homemade or not, the spread will be impressive if you take time to create a pretty tablescape. Serve a variety of cookies, squares, cakes, candy, nuts, and definitely something chocolate. Intersperse platters with evergreen boughs, shiny ornaments, and scatter candy canes around the table. Offer coffee and/or cocktails, but also prepare a punchbowl of classic eggnog or a crock-pot of cinnamon-spiked cider.

You might even set up a dessert-decorating station for the kids. Simply provide plain cupcakes and cookies, frosting, sprinkles, and candies and let them go to town!

Boxing Day Brunch Bunch
If you didn't host Christmas dinner, or if you don't celebrate Christmas in your family, Boxing Day is the perfect time to invite guests to your place. Everyone has the day off and are already in a festive mood!

Plan a special (but laid-back) brunch by preparing platters of bagels, lox and spreads. Purchase muffins and scones from a quality bakery and mix together a fresh fruit salad. Don't forget the coffee, tea and mimosas!

If you want to take it up a notch, serve a warm dish as well. A breakfast strata is ideal; the savoury layers of bread, eggs, cheese, and sausage is always a crowd-pleaser. It can be made as far as a month ahead; just reheat from your freezer.

New Year's Day Open House
It might seem like a daunting proposition, but an Open House actually makes entertaining a large group easier since you don't need to accommodate everyone at once. And your guests will appreciate arriving on their own schedule -- especially after a big party night!

Once again, make and freeze the food in advance, or supplement with purchased items. A selection of soups kept warm in crock-pots or slow cookers makes a simple but satisfying buffet that can hold up all afternoon. Add baskets of rolls, breadsticks, and crackers. A fruit and cheese tray can be replenished as needed, as can a platter of crudités and dips. Set up a self-service bar, place a few salty nibbles and sweet treats around the house, and you're all set for a fuss-free day.

Fearlessly Make it Your Own
Mix and match the activities and menus above to suit your group -- and consider yet other ways to celebrate the season. Tree-trimming is a great excuse to invite family over, as is the first or last day of Channukah. 

Whatever event you decide to host this holiday season, remember to use your imagination, keep it simple, and definitely…don't sweat it!


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Managing hostess-phobia: Simple entertaining ideas for alternative holiday gatherings